DYKE CATEGORIES
STUDS/BUTCHES TOUCH ME NOT BUTCH
This is usually the type of dyke that has gender identity disorder (she wants to be a man). She takes on the very dominant role in the relationship, the male role to be exact. She dresses like a man and acts like a man. There is nothing feminine about her. She is sometimes more of a man than some men. In bed she will only want to make love to her woman using a strap-on. She will not want her woman to touch her breast or her vagina, go down on her or provide her with any type of pleasure. She wants to do all the pleasuring. She will not want a woman to touch her breasts etc., because it reminds her that she is a woman.
NEW AGE STUD/SOFT STUD She also takes on the dominant role in the relationship. She however does not mind her woman touching her body or giving her head etc. She likes to be pleasured in bed by her woman. She is the dominant party in bed and is usually if not always on top. She will use a strap-on occasionally in bed, but it is not necessary to the love making. She just does it for added spice. She can either dress very masculine or she can sometimes be androgynous. On rare occasions (like meeting the parents for the first time or going to an important job interview) she can dress like a fem for very short periods. We lesbians will always be able to spot her even if she's just faking the fem role, because she cannot get rid of the walk or the talk.
FEM-STUD This is the type of dyke that is very dominant and all boy in her thinking. She however has no problem rocking a short tight hair style that would make any fem jealous, or she might wear it long. She will wear baggy clothes and dress boyish in the streets, but occasionally she will do the fem thing. These are the type of studs that rule cooperate America. She will throw on a Jones of New York like its nothing, but still have an unmistakable boy edge. She is so fly that even men are drawn to her charms even though she is obviously gay. She is similar to the new age stud in bed.
PSEUDO STUD AKA "THE I WISH I WAS HARD" STUD This is the type of stud that is a pretender. She is hard in the streets and around her boyz and fem women that she is not dating. When she goes home to her fem she drops the façade. Her girl takes control and usually dominates her in bed. She may even allow her girl to use a strap-on on her. Her woman might sometimes wonder who the fem really is in the relationship. This type of stud may also have a secret attraction to fem-studs, soft-studs and in some cases butches. A lot of white dykes fall in this category (you see them walking around holding hands butch with butch). On rare occasions you see them in the black community. You know the type of couples where you are constantly wondering who's the daddy? This type of stud should have her stud card revoked!!!
FAKE BUTCH This is usually a fem who wants to attract other fem women by dressing like a butch/stud. She will act the hard role but her heart is not in it. She is only doing it to attract a fem. When they get involved with a fem they usually can't keep up the pretense and eventually bitch out once they feel comfortable enough in the relationship.
THE VERSATILE DYKE AKA "THE LOST SOMEWHERE IN BETWEEN" DYKE This is the type of dyke that constantly keeps the masses guessing. Is she stud is she fem? Sometimes when you see her out, she is dressed totally fem. Yet other times she does the tomboy/soft butch thing. She is attracted to good-looking butch types, but just as attracted to stunning femmes. She likes what is pleasing to her eyes. When she is with a butch she acts the submissive part and is totally fem. She does not do soft studs/new age studs that often because they can't keep her in check like a butch can. When she is with a fem she acts the dominant role, and will occasionally do the soft stud thing if her woman wants it like that. In bed she can be submissive or dominant, whatever she is called on to be. Don't be misled by this one however, homegirl can work a strap or her tongue as well as any butch/soft stud can.
FEMS PILLOW PRINCESS This is the type of woman that gets involved with a "touch me not" butch. She is used to being taken care of by her butch. She is also used to being pleasured totally in bed. She will not give her woman head (because she does not know how or never had to learn how). She will treat her butch like a woman would treat a man. Their roles are old fashioned and rigid.
NEW AGE FEM She is all woman and very feminine. She will however love to play and active role in the bedroom. She enjoys pleasuring her woman and especially likes to give her head. She may get with a "touch me not stud" and be totally unhappy or get with a soft stud/new age stud and be satisfied totally (well for the most part). She will also mess with other fem women occasionally for the sexual gratification and to be able to explore her body like a butch or soft stud won't allow. She however won't be able to form a long lasting relationship with a fem because she loves the dominance of a butch or soft stud.
AGGRESSIVE/DOMINANT FEM She will dress and act totally feminine. She will however be totally dominant. She will only date feminine women and will usually take on the dominant role in sex. This type will occasionally do the fake-butch thing.
TRUE BI-SEXUAL This is a woman that can form meaningful relationships with both sexes. When she is with a woman she is only with her and fits totally into the gay world with no problem. When she is with a man she fits totally into the straight world and totally loves him. She is not really confused. She just falls in love with a person not a gender. She usually prefers sex with women but some can enjoy both equally. She is usually attracted to the soft stud/tomboy types, but may have a lot of problems in the relationship because of the stud's fear that she is not true to the game and will eventually go back to men. Sexually she is very aggressive in bed.
FAKE BI-SEXUAL This is the type of woman that most of us real lesbians run from. She is not really bi-sexual; she is just having sex with women for the "freak factor." In other words she is just freaky in bed and that is all it is to her with women, just being freaky. She will usually have a boyfriend and wants him to join in the fun or she is doing it to fulfill his fantasy. Sometimes though if their man is cool with it, they will have sex one on one with a woman. These are the type of aggravating women that have personal ads asking for a threesome with you or have personal ads that state "I already have a man, just looking for a feminine female friend for fun." A lot of the time they are just having sex with women to please their man. Some may actually like sex with women but prefer men hands down. They will only get down with other fem women because this is the only type their man will allow in the bedroom. Also they are just doing it for the sex so they want a woman that looks and acts like them. She will usually date other fake-bisexual women or luck up and get with a bi-curious woman and turn her on or off to sex with women.
BI-CURIOUS A bi-curious woman is curious about being with another woman sexually. Maybe it's because she is tired of men or maybe it's because she finds the idea of being with a woman fascinating because the media hypes it so much. Maybe she watched a lesbian flick and it turned her on a little and she wants to experience the real deal. She is usually dating a man or she is in between relationships but finding herself attracted to women. Usually one of two things happens. She tries it and loves it and becomes gay or bi-sexual (more become gay) or she never has the balls to try it and remains curious for the rest of her life. Some bi-curious women fall into the fake bi-sexual category (or so they want their man to believe). It is just a way for them for them to get in with women without their man feeling threatened, especially if she shares the fantasy with him. Sometimes these bi-curious now fake-bisexuals, become real gay after the experience. Either way I should warn the bi-curious that this is nothing to play with. It is rarely just about the sex with women. It is very emotional and the love and the lovin' are on a whole different level. Ask the millions of bi-curious women who tried it and loved it and can't or won't go back to men. This is not for the weak minded because the wrong woman can drive you crazy and a woman's touch is as addictive as crack. Thanks again for allowing me to share and until we meet again, remember that Girls do, do that only better!!!! -Natalie Simone