Mz

Who I'd like to meet:

I'd basically like to meet everyone, but I usually like the sweet ones, the shy ones and the genuine ones. It takes guts to be kind in a world based on survival, I admire those that remain hopeful. I like the ones with an agenda similar to mine. What I am looking for are comrades in the fight against conformity, conservatism and capitalism. I am looking for people who see through the crap of the day to day, who see past skin and bank statements and who operate on a different wavelength than Baywatch. I am looking for the ones who aren't afraid. I want to talk to people who don't see boundaries as challenges or kindness as a sign of weakness that can then be exploited. I want to meet those who are confident enough to think that any club who would accept them as a member must be a pretty cool place. I want to meet women who are inspiring. I want to meet men who have goals and dreams, interests and hobbies (collecting women on myspace is not one of them). I don't care if you wear the latest designers or know the names and birthplaces of every band that has ever existed, it's not a competition. I don't care if you are gay or straight. I don't care if you are androgynous or transsexual. I welcome diversity. I want to be proud of people for achieving, growing, learning, expressing and for being themselves - whatever that is. You can be vanilla, chocolate or strawberry - as long as you don't preach your lifestyle to me we'll get along fine. I don't care to debate you. I know what I am, I am a dominant woman who knows her place in life and I'm happy to not be just like everyone else or what society would like me to be. I want to meet people who are above their animal instincts. I want to meet couples who do not see the man as an ATM, or the woman as an accessory. The 80's were a great time in music but I have moved on. We base our choices nowadays only on what we see and that is unfortunate, I've always wanted to be way more than that. As a woman I am constantly judged based on appearance and most people never look any further. I like to be what you don't expect. I'm everything at all times and very real. I don't want to talk to someone who only sees themself as a reflection in a mirror. Make-up is amazing when used to express personality, it is dull when used to cover the lack of one. I don't want to talk with someone's insecurities, I want to feel the energy of their life, I don't want to be met with judgment or fear. I want to be supportive, encouraging and open. People who get bored easily are boring, if you can't entertain yourself then why should I find you interesting? I expect a lot from people, because I expect a lot from myself. There is more to life than cars and jewelry and I expect to find what I am looking for. Care to join the quest? Go ahead add me, make my minute.

If I've requested to add you, I've read your profile and found you interesting. I may not send an email. I'm not into collecting people. I don't compete for who has the biggest list (I get pages and pages of adds a day, I could easily do the big meaningless list thing). Every profile added I find intriguing in some way. I always respond to emails, unless you are rude, ask something that is answered by my profile or do not respect my relationship - then I will delete you or report you. I am busy and have no time for bullshit or barbarians, but will make time for the right people, always.

Who I don't want to meet:

IF YOU ARE A BAND- READ MY MUSIC. I'm on here for a sense of community, not to be harassed.
I'm not looking for sex, or flirting, or teasing or anything of the sort. There are plenty of women on here who are, find them. I have my man for life and monogamy is one of my most sensual fetishes.
Those who claim to be bitches and assholes are not my cup of tea. I don't have time for it.
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I am looking for quality, not quantity -
I won't add you if:
I suspect you're not a real person.
If your profile is blank.
If I can't tell who you are because you have nothing but pictures and videos and no information about yourself, I make friends with people not pictures.
If you don't have any music listed.
If you only have one photo and it isn't you.
If you are in the service then approach me as a person, not a soldier.
If you are male and have nothing but females. (I don't waste my time reading profiles of men unable to make friends with other men).
If you refer to females as bitches, ho's etc. or if you claim to "love the ladies"- I will block you from contacting me. I don't want a big deal made out of my gender.
I don't care if you're on my list, I'm not competing, I'm looking for quality people with
interests, not to be part of some list of hot chicks. It's creepy how many collectors exist. If you are single and looking for dates that's fine, leave me out of it, but what irks me is that even married men are doing it - it's so cavemanish. Women can tell you are collecting them to boost your own fragile ego (and some of them take full advantage of your weakness). I like people who see through bs, not perpetuate it. If you are a man and you are on my list consider yourself part of the elite.

If you have anything of the above, you are not quality. Buzz off.


It can take about a week for me to add you, longer if I'm sick or out of town or if Myspace is having problems, so don't get discouraged and remove yourself. I read everyone's profile, look at their pictures and get a sense of who they are before I add someone and it takes time. I will either accept or deny everyone, ..if you are still waiting for an approval it means I haven't been able to read your profile yet...
In the cases of denials don't take it personally (most people don't fit the qualifications above). Simply send me an email and introduce yourself for a better chance. I'm attempting to keep my list hand picked. I especially deny a lot of bands, it got to where I was swimming in promotions and that is not why I am here.
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COMMENT guidelines:
What I approve: Personal messages to me, great, thank you. I always reciprocate, just may take awhile or unless your page crashes my machine.

What is iffy: I don't approve large pictures or images, unless very compelling.
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Just don't bother: I absolutely do not approve advertisements for bands or most personal projects. This is MY page, not a bulletin board. Show some respect.
I do not approve comments with sound. It gets old real quick.


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